https://whisper.sh/whisper/0518955f8747e7448295ac14fbcf4536b132fb/I-hear-about-people-meeting-their-loves-online-all-the-time-and-I-cant

First of all I want to say that what people call Love is just what I call Intimacy. And intimacy isn´t love. This two words have a different meaning, they are not even close.When you love someone, you respect them. The one you love is your priority, it's about them you think first. And this is something automatic, like breathing. For love we do everything and everything is worth. Every hour, every minute, every second. The time seems to fly... And in your heart you only have place for the one you love. 

So, it's natural and perfectly normal to think all the time or most of your time about them.

Intimacy is the opposite. It may happen intimacy become love, but generally it's not the most probable thing. Why? Because intimacy is just a mean to people spend their time. I don't know. Till where I can see and understand it's just a habit. Once, I spoke with a man on POF. He had a girlfriend, younger than him ( a lot). He told me she was beautiful and he liked her, but every night he went to search for intimacy with other women. I asked, why? He answered:" it's a need".

So I ask you, is not a woman enough?! Really? And even with someone, it's a need? Humm... 

It's not a need. People change the meaning of the words just to justify their acts. I don't consider this a need, it's just a habit, an addiction. You don't agree? You have the right to disagree, but please explain me your point of view, so I can understand, or at least try to understand. 

Now, about the pictures...

Yes, it's true. I spoke with a lot of guys. Just a few didn't ask me a picture. It seems that everybody is looking for a monument. The person has to be incredibly perfect, like a top model or something.  

If you are looking for love, you have to close your eyes. You must see with your heart. I am telling you because I care about all of you. I want the best for you.

Now, if you are only looking for intimacy, what I am writing is not to you. It's not to offend you either.

https://whisper.sh/whisper/051bee7da9890698234213e76eadb7b9975c93/If-you-both-had-invested-the-time-and-energy-that-you-had-online-to-eac