5/11/2016

I have been thinking... analysing, testing and searching. After all, what makes people happy? No matter where or how far I go, the answer is always the same. Something so simple to answer, so easy to understand, but so "difficult to do" - LOVE.

Yeah, I know what you are thinking right now..."Oh Cristina, for God sake, not love again... this answer is so you!" And in fact it is, so I guess I cannot say you are wrong.

A few days ago, a person made a remark, "Something that I noticed about you since the beginning is that you always try to justify everything you say." And he was right... if you are paying attention, you can see this in almost everything I write or say. I think the main reason why I act like this is that I want people to understand and not only to listen to me. But the truth is ugly... no matter how much you try to explain, if people aren't able to feel, everything will be lost, including your time and the attempt to explain the "unexplainable". So this time I won't write much; today I won't say much and won't try to justify a thing. I want you to watch a video, the video bellow. It speaks about love; the type of love that brings happiness; the kind of love I believe and the only kind that exists: the genuine! Please ignore the religion here and focus yourself in what really matters. It's not a long video... 2 minutes... please watch it. Hope it can illuminate you, so you can enlighten someone else.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9U_zhRu1AQc

P.S.- When you give something to someone, you lose what you are giving, but not when you give love. What will happen is that you both will be stronger and richer and nothing or no one can destroy or steal that. And so you'll be happy, I will be happy, we all will be happy.
People want to be happy, but they lost their hearts. Happiness is a state of the heart and is born with friendship and love. I don't think anyone can be happy being heartless, objective and realistic. I even dare say that it's impossible...

A beautiful poem to reflect...