05/02/2016

The perfect relationship is made of love and moved by love. And what is love? It’s a deep and emotional connection. How do you know whether is love or not? It’s simple:

• You can’t stop thinking about her/him (they are on your mind before you go to bed, when you wake up and during the day. Sometimes they even appear in your dreams).

• You want to see and make the other happy; they are all that matters. So you always have the wish to seek the best in everything for their bliss. It’s not about your happiness, it’s about theirs!

• You completely put your life in their hands because you trust them. There is no love without trust and trust is only possible when people are honest. Without honesty, love is an illusion; you can’t even call it love. People have to know each other, accept and trust, so they can give themselves totally; entirely and not by half. Love does not happen, it takes time to happen. Ironically, it never gives a warning!
I don’t believe in love at first sight, unless it is something like a spiritual calling or something. Plus, people are not spiritual, they live absorbed by the mundane; the carnal. Love at first sight is a vulgar term the society uses to justify their acts. Generally it happens when it’s related with physical beauty or money. That is attraction, not love! And by the way, I hate that word when it’s associated with something as pure as love. As you probably already realised, I am speaking about love in its highest form, as a pure feeling and not what we see every day.

Love is always generous! I won't even explain the meaning of this beautiful word because, at this point, if you keep on reading me, you already know what I want to say. 

You know what they say, love is blind! When you love someone, their flaws are not a priority; their qualities are. The nature is wise! It makes us accept the other as they really are. The flaws are minimized with the qualities one another. Seems complicated or ironic, but it isn’t. Once you love someone you’ll understand the “conspiracy theory”!

One person will be enough, your priorities will change and compromise will make all sense! Nothing will ever be the same again; it will be better! 

Love does not steal anything from anyone; it works in a reverse way: It only gives! In a perfect relationship, both are giving. It’s easy to fall in love, but to keep love is wondrous; staying in love is an art that only the heart knows.