15/05/2016

Unless you are an only child, there is no relationship that can be compared with a sibling. We might have lots of friends and/or colleagues, but the kind of friendship is absolutely different. If you have a brother(s) and/or a sister(s) you know exactly what I mean. It’s a special and unique connection! Sometimes life plays some tricks and takes away these people with whom we have this special bond and never return them back. Two situations might happen... or death came and stole their precious life either life took them to live their lives without including us.

The sadness comes; we feel alone and completely lost. To where will we go now without such an important part of our lives? Why did they have to go? The anger lurks at each corner and it will come the time that it will arise, leaving us even more lost than we were before. The world no longer makes sense; we no longer see any sense about most of the things. It’s difficult to overcome such a loss because, as I usually say, we are made of emotions; the body is just a mean which makes possible to do our work here. 

We build a wall, an invisible wall. With the years passing by, it is no longer a wall, it’s a fortification! Nobody enters!! No one will hurt us anymore; we won’t allow it. And we keep ourselves prisoners of the defence we built. It was the way we found to carry on and so, we become empty; more lost than found. I know a few people like this. Every time someone tries to get close to them, they can’t. And when they can, they are dragged to a void! I tried to help a few individuals, however, I failed! They didn’t allow me to; they didn’t want me to! They have a big and deep wound and isolate themselves; they never speak about that subject (lost siblings).

My dear friends, when you share happiness, you create more happiness; when you share your pain, it’s halved. Don’t you know how wounds are healed? Uncovered!

And don't you dare to say that I don't know what it is like to lose a sibling. I am not Alice and I don't live in wonderland. I never lived there!

I also lost mine...

P.S.- Isolation is not the way forward. It never is...