When we love there is no half measure; either we love or we don’t! I was told several times to stop trying to understand people’s behaviour... “For your own good”, they said. Perhaps they were right, because the more I try to understand, the more I sink and the less I know.
Do you think it’s possible to not lose your identity in a relationship, regardless of its kind?
It seems to me that if you don’t do what people expect you to do, they will stop loving you. Perhaps it was never love, I don't know. I am getting old and stupid... What do you think? Have you ever been in a similar situation, I mean excluded because of "silly things"?
Friendship, parents-children relationship and couple relationship are the 3 main types of relationships people have in their lives and the ones I consider more important. You can guess why, can’t you?
The damn irony is that all problems are born in these relationships; if not in all, at least in one of them. What I will speak about might probably touch you, since we are living in a globalized world. I just regret that the bad things can spread much faster than the good ones. It should be the opposite... but what can I do?
Let’s start with the parents’ relationship, once it was there where we all began our journey.
Parents-children relationship
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